Embarrassed: Believes No One Will Grant Credit
My very good friend, we’ll call him Ramsey (not David), does not use credit. Mind you, he’s not just a simple follower of some nameless cult leader advocating that no one should ever use credit. Ramsey’s a regular fellow, professional, married with grown children and grandchildren, too. Ramsey simply does not use credit and has not used credit in the past 8+ years. The only credit he’s had in the past several years is bad credit due to medical bills. These are the type of medical bills CFPB studied and recently discussed. These are the medical bills which have ruined credit for so many for so long. This is compounded if one is not offsetting the bad credit with good credit. And he wonders why he has such poor credit scores. One must use credit to get credit for using credit.
Fear of Credit
Tips for overcoming credit phobia – Although you intellectually understand that using a credit card is beneficial, you might still have emotional concerns. Perhaps you misused or didn’t understand how to use and not use credit when you were younger. Perhaps you had a bad experience. Start over and don’t make the same mistakes, you’ve learned what not to do.
The good news is that you can take steps to get more confident about the proper use of credit.
Check your attitude and thinking – One reason people overspend with credit cards is they are thinking incorrectly. Internalize the idea that credit cards provide short-term loans. When you swipe your card, you’re borrowing money – and you’ll have to pay it back. Plastic isn’t free money or additional income. And it does not replace income.
Confront your fear – Ignorance breeds fear, so the best way to overcome a fear of credit cards is to become more educated about them. The Board of Governors of the Federal Reserve System put together this wonderful guide to help you learn more about credit cards.
Make a budget – The best way to keep your spending under control is to make a plan for how you’ll use your funds. Be realistic about your budget and stick to it. You can use this budget form from Google for free. TIP: The most restrictive budgets usually fail.
Track spending by keeping receipts – After setting up a budget, keep tabs on how you’re doing by tracking your spending. You can use online banking or any other method you’re comfortable with, just do it.
Sign up for alerts – Most credit card issuers give you the option to set up text or email alerts to be reminded of billing due dates, your current balance, etc. Even though you’re keeping track on your own, setting up an alert adds an extra layer of protection against overspending or not timely paying.
Learn the facts –. Do not let your in-use credit be more than 20% of the available credit, ever. Better is to have no more than 10% of your credit limit in use as you are building or rebuilding your credit reputation. To learn more click and read this and then this.
Next, we heartily suggest you read: Credit: Use It to Build It – Part 2Financially Speaking™ James Spray, MLO, CNE, FICO Pro CO LMO 100008715 | NMLS 257365 | September 19, 2014 | Revised March 31, 2018
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